How and When to Use the “David and Goliath” Story Template

David and Goliath

Whether you’re Jewish, Christian or neither, you’ve probably heard the Biblical story of the shepherd boy destined to become a king. David was the shepherd boy who courageously accepted the fight-to-the-death challenge from the Philistine warrior Goliath, a man twice his size. It’s a classic tale of the underdog facing the champion. If you’ve heard […]

How do you Influence When You Have Limited Authority?

When I was young we used to find adventure on the new home sites at the end of our street. A big pile of dirt would quickly become a trophy centerpiece to do battle for the reigning title of “King of the Mountain.”   If you’ve never played it before, every person tries their best […]

Want A More Engaged Audience When you Speak?

How to cure the audience's mental blind spot

man remember

“So how was the new restaurant you tried?” As soon as I ask you the question you immediately begin to access the memory of the experience. For some reason, before you recall anything from the experience you feel agitated and disturbed. Then one side of your mouth tightens while one eye brow is lifted with […]

Why You Need a Story to Move the Audience

The Purpose for Storytelling

MacGyver

Picture this… We’re watching a movie where our hero is trapped and facing absolute doom with no obvious way out. We begin to feel anxiety and a deep sense of urgency for an escape. We also do something else… our brains are working fast on a solution for the hero. This can’t be the end! […]

Why Some Speakers are Never Misunderstood

The metaphor technique used to make interpretation easier

dog swimming

Imagine each of these… you’re covered in mud and rolled in feathers, a baseball balanced on top of an upside down cup, you’re watching a dog swim from a goggle-wearing, breath-holding position under the water. All of these things took a split second for you to imagine. You’re good at this! Of course you’re good […]

What’s the Best Way to Finish a Presentation?

I guarantee we can do better than "Any questions?"

The End

“Well, uhh… that’s all I got folks. Thanks for coming… Oh WAIT! … Any questions?  No?  Okay then yeah, that’s all I got.”  That’s word for word how he ended his presentation. While we’re probably all guilty of this at one time in our career, that doesn’t sound good.  How do I know? Because I […]

7 Ways to Improve Your Cold Calling Results

Reviving The Lost Art of the Sales Cold Call

female sales rep

Nobody answers their phone anymore and they never return a cold call voice mail! Right? I’d beg to differ. iSpeak has been using outbound calling for almost 15 years now and we still see positive results. Much of what I share below was learned from Dara, our Sr. Sales Consultant. She’s the highest caliber professional in […]

Why do we equate “Leader” with “Winner”?

...and the problem we've created

skiing

I’m not a huge Winter Olympics fan, but I enjoy watching some of the events. While watching the downhill slalom racing in Korea I heard the announcer say, “With that time, he’s now leading the pack.” For the first time, I heard it. I heard the misnomer in the words he chose. “He’s leading the […]

The Secret to Building a Committed Team

My Commitment Conversation with 4 Senior Leaders

Seoul Korea

He paused for a moment and then answered my question. “I want to learn how to be more influential today.” I was in Seoul, Korea for a week of leadership communication training. I had asked all four of the leaders what they wanted to discuss during our time together. This leader’s request was not so […]