The 2 Secrets for Building Strong and Lasting Teams

married couple

My wife and I celebrate 25 years of marriage this year. We’re taking time this year to reflect on that quarter of a century. While we’ve definitely had a few bumps along the way, they’ve been the happiest years of my life. It’s caused me to pause and consider what makes a relationship work? Not […]

Leading with Fear Will Fail in the End

Jude Law King Arthur

When I’m on long flights overseas, I end up watching at least one movie. Most recently on my trip to Korea I watched the movie King Arthur. I’m familiar with the storyline and I was curious how this adaptation would be different. In this version, the power craved uncle (played by Jude Law) thinks that […]

Do You Make This Communication Mistake?

I did. The ONE forgotten step that kills relationships

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It’s no secret some people interpret disagreement as a sure sign you’re an enemy combatant. How do I know? Because I’m as guilty as the rest of us. When somebody disagrees with me (e.g. business, politics, religion, etc.) my brain jumps into battle stations, “Shields up! Divert all power to the forward cannons! Fire when […]

5 Steps to Make Risky Decisions Less Risky

How to overcome fear when faced with a tough decision

Cliff Jump

I was about to jump… but the 50-foot drop to the rocks below caused me to pause. “Just step out to the edge and jump away from the edge.” My zip-line guide made it sound so simple. I’d just seen 6 others do it and walk away without a scratch, but now it was my […]

Three Ways We Destroy Trust

What we can learn from the Prisoner's Dilemma

Handcuffs

The police detective enters the room to question the first of two suspects. “Your buddy in the other room is going to have a chance to speak, just like you. If you confess you both did it, you’ll both get a minor sentencing. But… if you stay silent and your buddy talks… you’re going away […]