Why is everyone on their smartphones instead of listening to me?

Are you making these 4 classic speaker mistakes?

business man with smartphone

When I walked into my training room, one student was already there. He looked up and asked, “Are we gonna cover smartphones? You know when you’re up there speaking and the audience is on their smartphone. Isn’t that just rude? I mean… how do I handle that when I’m the speaker?” I’m waiting for him to […]

3 Steps for a Leader to Create Change

How to help your team achieve more

Las Vegas Sign

Imagine an audience of 1,500 medical device salespeople in Las Vegas at their national sales conference. The speaker is introduced as a leading authority on cardiovascular disease. She begins with a request, “I want you to look around. Look at the people around you.  In particular, look at the person to your left, your right, the person […]

The Authenticity Manifesto

Why do we struggle to be authentic?

Mardi Gras Mask

“Play it safe.” “Don’t risk too much.” “Don’t let others know you’re struggling. Just act strong.” “Fake it because you know you’ll never make it!” You hear that voice whispering to you? That evil voice? Yes, I said evil. It’s the evil voice that convinced you to wear that mask in the first place. What would the […]

5 reasons why stories are better than data

Part 3 of 3: Leveraging the "Power of Different"

Children looking

My class asked for an example so I stepped to the front of the room, paused for a moment, and then… “Every day in the Greater Houston area, 300,000 children under the age of 5 go to bed hungry each night because their parents can’t afford to put food on the table.” Then I pause for […]

Peace, Joy, and Love today and always

Merry Christmas to you all!

Luke 2:10

Let’s take a break from work. Take a break from focusing on communication as leaders and sales professionals. Let’s focus on something much more significant today. My prayer for you is that your year has been one of lessons learned, relationships mended, and joy discovered. May we all be blessed by being a blessing to others as […]

7 Ways to Kill Your Company’s Culture

Without regular attention, we can all fall guilty to these

frustrated young man

My student pulled me aside during our break to ask me a coaching question with regard to her recent classroom presentation.  “When I was speaking, did you notice anything peculiar about how I was speaking?” When my students present for the first time, I often pick up on distractions in speech or body language, but doing […]

The most effective way to create a persuasive message

4 steps to persuade your audience

The salesman at my front door held out the vile and said, “Fill this with some water from your tap and I’ll show you what you’re drinking.” The football game wasn’t on for another 20 minutes so I was game. I also had a question in my head, “What am I drinking!?” After returning the tap […]

What Dakota taught me about Leadership

RIP Dakota - We will miss you!

Golden Retriever dog

My brother’s favorite hunting buddy wasn’t me. It was his golden retriever, Dakota. This past week Dakota passed away peacefully at home. After my brother got home from work that day, Dakota greeted him as usual but wasn’t the same. After Dakota got to see his favorite hunting buddy for the last time, he went […]

Stories get better at the fork

One powerful secret speakers use to captivate you

...but you've probably never noticed

Peter Pan float in parade

The Disney World attendant reached out her hand toward my crying son and said, “Russell… will you come with me please?” Earlier we had asked about getting Peter Pan’s autograph and we were told he would not be signing autographs today, but he would be in the parade down Main Street USA. Peter Pan was […]